Wedding is one of the greatest influences after the country was colonized by the western. This became part of the tradition and is being practice until this present time.
Wedding is the time of rejoicing not just for one person but it affects almost all the relatives of the newly-wed couple.In every wedding there is always custom that is being practiced and this has been part of the culture. It may vary between culture, religion, and social classes. Some of it may not be applied but in most cases since it’s part of the beliefs, soon to be husband and wife should know this in order to avoid the so called “misfortune”.
- Pamamanhikan (Parental Marriage Proposal)
It is when the families of the couple meet that happens usually in woman’s house and also to ask their parent’s blessings.
- Despidida de Soltera (Goodbye to spinsterhood)
This happens the night before the wedding, wherein the both the groom and the bride with their respective families gathered again together and is usually a formal dinner.
- Release a pair of white male and female doves
This happens during the reception. It symbolizes the marital harmony and peace.
- Money Dance
The bride and the groom dance with each other while the guests pin money in their garments. This will serve as a couple’s start-up fund.
- Bouquet Toss
All the single ladies gathered around to get flower. Whoever managed to get the bouquet will be the next to get married.
- Throwing rice at the newly-wed couple
This traditional style mostly applied in the province. Throwing rice to the bride and the groom will bring them prosperity in life.
- Throwing the Garter Belt
The most anticipated highlight of the wedding. Throwing this garter from a piece of bride’s clothing brings good luck.
- Giving of Dowry
In traditional custom it dowry is the transfer of parents property to their daughter on her marriage.